Man wants
Ready to dance. That means she spent a certain amount of time studying and perfecting her tango technics. She is interested in developing dance technics so she tries to make her following as soft and free as possible. She studies to adaptize to unique style of every partner and waits for his lead. Restrained. She bring her personality to the dance gradually, does not open her possibilities at once. Very little use of adornments so they are really effective. Does not show her dance up and does not press her style to the man. Sensitive. She looks on the man, knows his height, weight, body structure and dance skills together with his character. What temperament does he bring to tango? Is he impulsive? Restrained? Playable? Does he move slow or fast, scenic or shy? She does her best to find advances in every partner and correspond to his dance style. Pays attention. She is concentrating all her attention on a partner to be mostly interactive in following. During the dance she doesnot look at sides to find a better partner. If she agreed to the invitation she will do her best to make a successful dance. She is calm and concentrated. She does not dance just for her partner - she dances for herself and doesnot hurry to do whatever this exact man likes. Intent and accurate she waits for his lead and then dances her part of a "dialogue" bringing her personaly to tango. Sometimes women try to hard to be liked in the dance and try to predict the next steps. They hurry too much to show to their partner their knowing of the next step and doing so desynchronize with a man's lead. When this happens a woman does not present in a dance, man dances alone. She shows her willing to dance - supplements the partner's lead with her energy. She has a positive attitude for the upcoming dance and she thinks that everything will be allright and become a pleasure for both. She remembers that tango is first of all - the game. This is not reality. We dance to find pleasure and express our personality, something we can't do really often in a common life.
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